Here we go, eight days after the 2008 elections, and already some religious groups are again trying to make the United States of America into a theocracy…a Christian theocracy.
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof…
The First Amendment of the United States Constitution prohibits one religion from being established in this country, and at the same time protects established religions by allowing them to exercise their religion freely.
“Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between Man & his God, that he owes account to none other for his faith or his worship, that the legitimate powers of government reach actions only, & not opinions, I contemplate with sovereign reverence that act of the whole American people which declared that their legislature should “make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof,” thus building a wall of separation between Church & State.” Thomas Jefferson
Unfortunately, several religious groups feel that their beliefs should also be the law in the United States; in particular in outlawing marriage between same-sex couples and a choice option for pregnant women.
… no man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever, nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer on account of his religious opinions or belief; but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinion in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish enlarge, or affect their civil capacities… James Madison
Last week in California, voters actually took away rights from an entire group of people when they passed Proposition 8, making possible a state constitutional amendment that denies the rights and benefits of marriage to same-sex couples.
This week, the Catholic Church in the United States is both demanding that President-elect Barack Obama help to enact policies that will make it more difficult if not impossible for women to obtain a legal abortion; and the Church is also working to censure Vice-President-elect Joseph Biden for supporting womens’ choice because he is also a Catholic.
In both of these cases, religious groups are seeking to impose their own beliefs on the entire country. Marriage is first and foremost a civil union authorized by the state, which then confers on the couple all of the rights, benefits, and privileges due them as a married couple. It has absolutely nothing to do with the sexual act or with procreation. Even if a heterosexual couple has the most spectacular and expensive church wedding possible, they are “not married” by law until the state in which they reside says they are married.
But because some religions believe that marriage is only between and man and woman and only for the creation of children, they feel they have the right to deny a marriage relationship to those people who do not fit their particular idea of a loving couple. These groups feel that their own marriages are so fragile that same-sex couples getting married is so damaging that heterosexual marriages need special protection from same-sex marriages.
Homosexuality is not a “lifestyle” or a “choice”. Gay people are people just like all other people are people. They smile, frown, laugh, cry, hurt and heal just like everyone else. They do not “bother” or “damage” anyone else just by “being”. They deserve to have a loving, committed, life-long married relationship just like anyone else.
I will be blogging about this regularly…I feel very strongly about this. I am not gay, but I am a human being. It is not my place to tell other human beings that they are “less than” me because of their sexual orientation. There is enough hate and vitriol in the world; why deny people love?
There is a difference between being “pro-choice” and “pro-abortion”. When life actually begins has many different interpretations. Some people believe life begins at conception. Others believe that life begins when the child is actually born and can breathe on its own outside of the womb. There are many reasons why a woman may have to choose to have an abortion; but the point is, she has that choice. Until the fetus can exist outside of the womb and without the umbilical cord, it is still a part of the woman’s body. Having an abortion is a very serious and very private decision. There are very few people who want more abortions; but the same “anti-abortion” people are also against sex education and/or sexual protection. Again, they are attempting to force their views and beliefs on everyone.
Choice means just that: choice. A woman may choose to keep the baby, to give it up for adoption, or to terminate the pregnancy. That is a choice. It has been proven that the better the education and knowledge of options before pregnancy, the fewer abortions there are. However, there are those who do not want a woman to have “choice” because she might choose something different than what they would choose. These people who “choose life” don’t think about “life” after the body is born.
Again, I will be blogging on this regularly in the future…I also feel very strongly about this issue.
I am a heterosexual, married, Christian woman. But it is not my place to force my beliefs on others; especially in a diverse, secular republic such as the United States of America.
There will be those who disagree with me, and that is their right. But it is not their right to force their beliefs on me, either. The United States of America is based on Judeo-Christian ideals, but this country is NOT a Christian country, or part of a Catholic Archdiocese; it is NOT run by religious leaders. We can respect religious ideas without being beholden to one group’s beliefs.
Everyone is a human being who deserves to live like every other human being. Every woman has the right to make the choice that is right for her at the time. The Church is the Church and the State is the State, and ne’er the twain should meet. America is a country for all religions; even though who are atheists or humanists have rights, and the basic tenet to treat others as you would like to be treated is for everyone.
The Golden Rule or the ethic of reciprocity is found in the scriptures of nearly every religion. It is often regarded as the most concise and general principle of ethics…
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
1. Judaism and Christianity. Bible, Leviticus 19.18
Whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them.
2. Christianity. Bible, Matthew 7.12
Not one of you is a believer until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.
3. Islam. Forty Hadith of an-Nawawi 13
A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated.
4. Jainism. Sutrakritanga 1.11.33
Try your best to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, and you will find that this is the shortest way to benevolence.
5. Confucianism. Mencius VII.A.4
One should not behave towards others in a way which is disagreeable to oneself. This is the essence of morality. All other activities are due to selfish desire.
6. Hinduism. Mahabharata, Anusasana Parva 113.8
Tsekung asked, “Is there one word that can serve as a principle of conduct for life?” Confucius replied, “It is the word shu–reciprocity: Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you.”
7. Confucianism. Analects 15.23